10 Tips for Travel with Children

{This is a post - newly revamped - from the archives! But a few friends are doing some travelling with kids soon, so I thought I might update it and repost it ... Enjoy! A xx}

I was going to call this post: When Your Toddler Won't Fit in Your Checked Luggage ... but I would never advocate doing that. 

Not before the trip anyway.

This post is a little different from most of mine ... but if you're a parent who likes the idea of travelling with your kids before they're teenagers, and you don't want to sacrifice your sanity or quality of life ... well you might just be interested.

Now before I go any further, I have a confession to make. We spend all our spare money on travelling. So lest you think I'm some kind of jet-setting millionaire ... nope. I'm just a parent, like you, who happens to make travel a priority. In part, it's because my family lives in the US (and I live in Australia). But mostly, I just love finding the little treasures hidden all around the world. 

Robbie and Nelle do, too, lucky for me ...

As a result, Nelle's been overseas lots in her first 3 4.5 years ... the first when she was just 3 1/2 months old. Since then, I think we've done it all. Breastfeeding in an economy-class seat next to complete strangers. Getting seated separately from Robbie (lucky bast*rd). Car seat dilemmas, delays, Nelle rolling out of hotel bed, colds, flus, and so on.

But goodness, that's making it sound awful. Really, travelling with Nelle was much easier than I expected! And now she enhances travelling for us - she's become very outgoing, and starts up conversations with people. As a result, we meet people wherever we go. We're no longer this insular little travelling island - Nelle branches us out.

Here are just a few of the things I've learned by flying with Nelle ...

1. ASK FOR LEG ROOM

Always see if you can get one of the bassinet (cot) seats, or at least a seat with extra leg room. Even if you end up with bub on your lap the whole time, you won't get as many cramps in your legs. Plus you may end up near another child, and the two can entertain each other. (Some may not see this as an advantage.) Beg. Plead.

2. TAKE A CAR SEAT

Consider taking the car seat on the plane. If you have a toddler you might actually find they behave themselves better if they're in their very own car seat. We discovered this by accident ... one airline (ahem BA) wouldn't let us check our car seat for free so we took it on board. It was great! Nelle slept better, didn't wiggle out of the ridiculous kid seatbelt, and was generally happier.

Plus, I've hired car seats in various places and ended up with some very costly, very sketchy seats. We'll be taking Nelle's with us overseas from now on.

NOTE: Be sure your car seat meets airline standards. Check ahead!

3. SOMETHING TO SUCK ON

Have something for bub to suck on during take-off and landing. This can be a dummy (pacifier) or a bottle or even food. Their ears aren't very good at readjusting to the pressure as the plane gains and loses altitude ... so sucking on something helps out. If you've often heard babies screaming during take-off or landing, this is probably why. Unless they're hungry. Or need a nappy change.

4. GET A VEGETARIAN MEAL

If you're travelling in a pair, order one vegetarian meal. It comes out earlier, so you can share around the baby-holding duties and eating duties. Trust me when I say it's not easy to hold a baby and eat your dinner at the same time.

5. GIVE UP EXPECTATIONS

Give up any expectations of watching a movie and/or drinking free wine. It may happen, but it may also happen that you're entertaining bub the whole flight. After 2 years of flights where Nelle only wanted to sit on my lap, she's now in her own seat - and - I've actually watched an in-flight movie again! Woo hoo!

6. TAKE FOOD

Lots of food. I cannot stress this enough. Food that's entertaining, nutritious, not sugar-laden, filling, favourite, time consuming to eat. Food in crackly packets. Crackers. Those great squeezy fruit or veggie purees. Those lunchbox-sized tetra-packs of milk. Be creative, but try to avoid food that'll have your little person bouncing off the (very cramped) walls. Best to check with your airline about their security restrictions, but I've found that most airlines let you take on fluids for babies and small children - my experience has just been that they'll swipe or test or make you taste one or two.

Muffins, breads, cookies and crackers are great kid-pleasers - here are some recipes for you to try out:
Easy Peasy Sweet Potato Muffins
Sweetheart Baking Powder Biscuits
Kids Can Make ... Zucchini Cake
Spelt Carrot Cake Muffins
The Best Cornbread
Whatever You've Got Muffins

Olive Oil Crackers
Cheesy Polenta Crackers
Ode to Puffed Corn
Cheesy Party Crackers 
Activated Almonds 
Sea Salt and Rosemary Toasted Almonds
Kale Chips

Kamut Flour Flatbreads
Ricotta Bread 

Brown Sugar Cookies with Chia Seeds and Orange Zest
My Fave Choc-Chip Cookies
Melting Ginger and Macadamia Shortbreads
Buckwheat and Butter Cookies
Cumin-Lime Cookies
Fresh-Ginger Cookies
Orange Poppyseed Cookies
Oat and Sunflower Biscuits
Peanut Butter, Chocolate and Quinoa Cookies
Vegan Sesame Cookies with Cacao Nibs
Lemon Millet Cookies
Chewy (Vegan) Anzac Biscuits  

NOTE: Always try out foods ahead of time - you definitely want food that your child likes, and doesn't react poorly to.

7. TAKE MEDICINES

Even if your child seems perfectly healthy when you get on that plane, they might start dripping just after take-off. And heating up. And crying, lots of crying. I always take a children's pain reliever and children's antihistimine with me on the plane, just in case. Again, in a small, labelled jar that the flight security people check out.

Plus, then you won't have to trawl foreign pharmacies for whatever your child normally uses. (How do you say antihistamine in Polish?)

As with the food, check your child's response to the medicine before the trip, and also make sure it's not considered illegal wherever you're going. (Hey, mistakes can happen!)

AND ... I know this stuff isn't 'medicine', but you might consider making up a batch of hand sanitiser before you go, too! 

8. TAKE ENTERTAINMENT

Take new books and toys - my faves are a little magnetic/erasable drawing board and stickers. Avoid toys with repetitive, tinny music at all costs. Toys will occupy at least a little time, though probably less than you anticipate ... but if you're lucky enough to get a flight with in-seat entertainment - you're in the money! We relax all our TV restrictions on the plane - I figure 4 straight hours of Dora the Explorer won't be too bad for Nelle in the long run. And let me tell you, you can get a couple of those little bottles of wine into you in 4 hours.

9. BE SELF RELIANT

Now I've got you excited, because you might have in-seat entertainment, right? Here's a very important tip: Never ever rely on the airline to get it right. You may be sitting away from your partner, the person in front of you might recline for the whole 14 hr flight, or the in-flight entertainment might consist of a classic movie shown on a screen half a plane away from you. You may not get your vegetarian meal or your wine. There may be enough turbulence that you can't use the bassinette anyway. Have contingency plans for these situations. But, most importantly, see #10.

10. BE ADAPTABLE

This is I think the most important mantra a parent can have, for any situation. At home, the shops, on a plane, at the hotel, anywhere. I find it's the times when I've made specific plans, or have my heart set on some me-based activity that things go (as they say here in Australia) pear-shaped. Dreadfully, disappointingly wrong.

There are always options to recover your sanity and even your happiness! All your entertainment options  have been a bust? Pull out your camera and go through photos together. Tell stories out of the magazine. Try peek-a-boo. Take photos of your child - see if you can do a series called Tantrums Across the World.

yep. she'll love me for this one later ...

I'm not trying to be negative here, you'll probably have a great flight with your little one! I do though think it's important to be realistic - things can go wrong. But you know what? You're clever, and creative, and a great mum or dad, so you'll be able to adapt. You'll do this! I mean, you've already done way harder things! So, the bottom line is:

Be prepared

Be adaptable

Laugh

Um, you say, where did that last one come from? My philosophy is that I make it through any situation if I can find the humour in it. I'm not necessarily suggesting you break into riots of laughter going through US customs ... but if things go poorly somewhere along the track, it'll make a great story, right? Just think of it like your favourite Seinfeld episode ...

So have a great trip! And maybe we'll see you in economy sometime :)

PS. Do you have a great tip? If so, please share it in the comments section! That way we can all use it!

Amanda xx